The Stars Crossed sequence focuses on astrological compatibility. Whereas it’s far more difficult than simply your Solar signal, we’re beginning off with the Solar as a result of it is a crucial a part of your astrology profile. In any case, it’s your core persona.
This month, we take a look at Virgo. Take into accout this will probably be basic information. As we progress on this sequence, we’ll take a look at many different particulars so you will get the entire image of the Virgo in your life (or your self).
I grew up with a Virgo father and brother. My companion is a Virgo, too. For sure, I’ve loads of expertise residing with these earthy astrological people, so I’ve loads of opinions. By the best way, Virgos love opinions – and they don’t seem to be afraid to share their critiques, so I suppose we’ll rely this as an Even Steven submit.
What to find out about Virgo:
Factor: Earth
High quality: Mutable
Image: The Virgin
Ruling Planet: Mercury
Key Phrase: I analyze.
Traits: mental, analytical, vital, perfectionist, detail-oriented
Once you meet a Virgo, there are two stuff you may discover immediately: their neat look and reserved demeanor. You’ll not often discover them in slob mode (though some have secret slovenly methods), nor are they dancing across the room with a lampshade over their heads. It’s not that they care what different individuals assume. As an alternative, they care what THEY assume. Lots of them had fastidious mother and father who instilled good hygiene and manners. Others grew up with messy varieties and vowed to by no means be the identical. Some merely benefit from the feeling of freshly laundered duds as a result of it makes them really feel good. Does it actually matter the reason for their well-groomed look and cautious method?
Most Virgos are likely to have compulsive habits. Generally it manifests as neat freaking. Different occasions, it’s the micromanaging (aka nagging). This could make it arduous for the parents who should dwell with them. When you’re beneath the identical roof, you might be assured they’ll have cleansing routines and a spot for every little thing. When you don’t like that, you may need to shut the room to your personal area whereas sustaining some form of compromised order in shared rooms. When you can not do this, they could decide up after you however received’t allow you to neglect about it.
Whereas acts of service are their love language, Virgos hates being the accountable one on a regular basis. But, they’re usually thrown into these roles as a result of they’re good at dealing with messes and fixing issues. This results in a vicious circle the place they find yourself with the lion’s share of the work and little credit score for his or her good efforts. You probably have a Virgo in your life, appreciation goes a good distance. Even higher, do issues for them with out asking. Be an equal in shared labor. They’ll love you to bits for that. (Enjoyable truth: a good friend as soon as requested my husband what he liked about me. His reply: competence.)
Virgos has a fame for perfectionism, and lots of will agree it’s true. It’s not that they’re Felix Ungers making an attempt to regulate every little thing (though a few of these varieties exist). As an alternative, they need everybody to be comfy. They need to make things better and be helpful. How stunning is that?
Though Virgo is the Virgin, they’re removed from chaste. On the floor, they’re squeaky clear, however most have vivid imaginations and soiled minds. This implies they’re delightfully naughty lovers…as soon as they’ve determined you meet their requirements (primary rule: scent nice).
As a result of they’re a mutable signal, they’re adaptable. Which means they’ll glide – up to a degree. Their earthy nature will kick in if it doesn’t make sense. Then, they’ll get busy making an attempt to regulate issues so every little thing flows proper.
Generally, they make a god out of being proper. They’ll include information, figures, and little graphs to show their level. You may as effectively neglect about arguing with them when they’re in that temper. That can solely encourage them to seek for the equation that settles the rating. Additionally they have prickly tempers, which might spike up at a second’s discover, often after they’re busy. However the factor that’s the most difficult is their tendency to criticize. Whereas they’re usually right, the supply leaves a lot to be desired. If you’re on the receiving finish of one among their biting critiques, it’s greatest to chortle and go on about what you are promoting (they hate that) or clap again with your individual assessment. That often ends their bullshit as a result of beneath all that pompous verbal disapproval lies a delicate one who simply desires to make issues higher. Give them a hug, inform them you like them as they’re, and all is effectively once more.
Romancing a Virgo: The way in which to Virgo’s choosy coronary heart is thru the thoughts. Like their Gemini counterparts, they’re dominated by Mercury, so psychological compatibility is a should. Clever dialog turns them on. This implies you’ll want to have one thing to speak about. If you realize a subject in-depth, you win factors with them. So, be an professional in one thing. Virgos are detail-oriented, which suggests the little issues matter. A hand-crafted card, easy floral preparations, and well-plotted-out evenings will get their consideration. Though they take pleasure in fixing issues, don’t turn into their “challenge.” Have your shit collectively. Be an equal. It will earn their respect; while you’ve bought that, you have got their loyalty. Additionally: by no means, ever present up late. Tardiness is a big no-no. Punctuality is their turn-on. Keep in mind that lengthy after you’ve sealed the deal. By the best way, they’re wonderful bets for long-term partnerships – in order for you that, there isn’t a one higher than a Virgo.
Virgo mother and father: Virgo mother and father will make certain their kids have every little thing they should succeed. They’ll additionally hold the kid dressed effectively, even when their means are modest. Training is vital, so they are going to put money into the most effective education. In fact, the surroundings will probably be orderly, and the kid could also be anticipated to take part in duties. These mother and father purpose to lift good, dutiful kids, and so they do for probably the most half. Nevertheless, they are often temperamental, particularly if the kid doesn’t dwell as much as their objectives. When that occurs, they harp on the child till they turn into a insurgent and not using a trigger. Figuring out when to ease up is significant in the event that they don’t need to create estrangement.
Virgo kids: Virgo youngsters are sensible past their years. A lot in order that they’re usually handled like little adults, even when they’re nonetheless moist behind the ears. Lots of them are clever and will excel in lecturers. As a rule, they are typically neat and routine-oriented. Due to this fact, it’s sensible to make sure they’ve a room for themselves if the siblings are messy. Some Virgo kids are shy, and it could take some time earlier than they heat as much as strangers. Don’t attempt to push them to have interaction in the event that they really feel reticent. Respect their emotions. Virgo children wish to serve, which makes it tempting to ‘parentify’ them. Keep away from that as a lot as potential. Allow them to be a child. There’s loads of time to get critical later.
Virgo bosses: When you work for a Virgo, you higher be able to work and do an excellent job. Half-assing received’t do. It’s essential to convey your A-game day by day. They’ll deal with you effectively should you can dwell as much as their requirements. However they don’t have any hassle letting go should you fail to satisfy their expectations. This doesn’t imply they aren’t compassionate. They’re. However work is critical enterprise for them, so it’s sensible to deal with your job prefer it’s a very powerful factor on the earth should you work for a Virgo.
Virgo workers: You’ll discover no higher worker than a Virgo. They like to work and take pleasure of their job. As a result of they like to serve, they’re more than pleased to be ready the place they look after individuals. Administrative, well being care, educating, human assets, and customer support are pure roles for them. However they’re mutable, so actually, they’ll tackle any place. Virgos hate to take sick days, so you might have to prod them to remain residence when they’re beneath the climate. Though they don’t seem to be showy varieties, they do recognize recognition. As a result of they’re the most effective at what they do, it’s arduous to not make them worker of the month each month.
Virgo associates: Virgos are loyal buddies. Most favor long-term relationships, in order that they’ll select to hang around with previous associates moderately than attempt to scout new ones. You probably have a Virgo buddy, you possibly can rely on them to be there when the chips are down (supplied they’re not too busy – they work loads). They’re additionally useful to have round should you want one thing mounted. And should you’re sick? They’re prepared for Florence Nightingale mode with home made hen noodle soup and chilly compresses. One factor to remember: most of them favor one-on-one. So, should you worth them, find time for that. When Virgo’s associates go unhealthy, they’re the masters of the backhanded praise. You already know that good friend who makes a comment that sounds constructive however is definitely a dig? Yep, that one. Ew.
I hope you take pleasure in this peek into the persnickety, ultra-smart Virgos. Subsequent up: Libra Suns.
xo
Theresa
If you wish to cowl astrological fundamentals, make sure you take a look at my e book, Astrology For Real Life: A No B.S. Guide for the AstroCurious.
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@ Theresa Reed | The Tarot Woman 2023
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